Giveaway + Guest Post : Me (and) Me by Alice Kuipers | Blog Tour

April 21, 2017 / 13 Comments / Blog Tour, Exclusive Content, Giveaways, Guest Post

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Hi guys, today I’m excited to be part of the blog tour for Me (and) Me by Alice Kuipers! This is a Canadian book that deals with an impossible choice: if two people you love are drowning, who do you save? The novel looks, in parallel, at what happens to protagonist Lark after each choice.

Read on for more about the book, Alice’s own decision that changed her life (it’s REALLY good), and a chance to win a signed copy of Me (and) Me!

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Author: Alice Kuipers
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Publisher: HarperCollins
Publication date: April 11th 2017
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It’s Lark’s seventeenth birthday, and although she’s hated to be reminded of the day ever since her mom’s death three years ago, it’s off to a great start. Lark has written a killer song to perform with her band, the weather is stunning and she’s got a date with gorgeous Alec. The two take a canoe out on the lake, and everything is perfect—until Lark hears the screams. Annabelle, a little girl she used to babysit, is drowning in the nearby reeds while Annabelle’s mom tries desperately to reach her. Lark and Alec are closer, and they both dive in. But Alec hits his head on a rock in the water and begins to flail.
Alec and Annabelle are drowning. And Lark can save only one of them.
Lark chooses, and in that moment her world splits into two distinct lives. She must live with the consequences of both choices. As Lark finds herself going down more than one path, she has to decide: Which life is the right one?
Alice Kuipers, the award-winning author of 40 Things I Want to Tell You and Life on the Refrigerator Door, is an expert chronicler of the teenage heart, and she takes her work to new heights here. A riveting, high-concept novel with heart, Me and Me is about what it feels like to be torn in pieces, and about finally finding out who you really are.

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Please welcome Alice Kuipers to Mostly YA Lit!

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“What is your one moment and one decision that you feel changed your life? Where would you be if you made a different decision? And how much did thinking of that influence Me and Me?”

These are great questions. As I think about how to answer it, it seems to me that a lot of the ideas behind my new book Me (and) Me probably do come from one huge deciding moment in my life. And that the writing of this novel has helped me let go of my desire to see what life would have been like if I’d picked the other option.

When I was 24, I fell in love with a Canadian writer. He was touring in the UK when we first met. Nothing happened that first day—April 3rd 2003—at The Cheltenham Festival. We met again when he was doing a talk in Manchester where I was studying my MA in Creative Writing. We stayed in touch, quickly falling for each other.

Then came the choice: he suggested we live together in Saskatoon, the city where he was going to be working as Writer-in-Residence. I’d never heard of the place.

The same day, The Cheltenham Festival suggested I apply for a job in their main office.

It was a day when I shut the door. I turned off my phone (it was a landline so actually, I unplugged it). And then I weighed up my options—both great. My head said to go for the job. My heart was 95 percent sure I needed to see if my relationship might work.

Making a choice means closing doors as you open them. Without knowing it, as I got on the plane on October 3rd 2003, after having spent a total of five weeks with my Canadian writer in person, I left the UK behind. Homesickness is a painful emotion. Actually painful—it hurts the stomach like a wound. But the life I have with Yann, and our four children, a life of writing and great community in our small prairie city, is my life now—full of opened doors.

If I hadn’t moved to Canada I might be with my mum and baby nephew right now, drinking tea. Or picking up a different set of children from a small school in London. Or I’d be lonely and miserable on a wet, windy British afternoon, wondering why I’d never moved to Canada to be with the one man I truly loved. I don’t know—and that’s what I learned while writing Me (and) Me. We never get to see the life we didn’t choose. But, as Lark—the main character in the book discovers—making a choice is far more empowering than doing nothing.

The idea of having to make a choice like Lark does interested me long before I decided to move to Canada. I actually wrote a novel about a girl splitting into two when I was eighteen. But the book didn’t work—I didn’t have the right main character. Lark came to me fully formed and, after publishing four other YA novels, I felt ready to start her story. When I’m writing, I’m immersed in the worlds of my characters. It is only when I reflect on a project later that I see what I was trying to do, and why. Me (and) Me is about making a choice. It’s about accepting that although it’s not easy to know which is the right choice, when an opportunity is presented, accept that it means some doors have to be closed while others swing open.

I really appreciate you making me think about my novel Me (and) Me in a new way, and thank you for letting me guest post today.

Best wishes,



Thanks so much, Alice, for this really thoughtful post. I really don’t know what I’d do in Lark’s position, but the idea of action vs. inaction being more important than what’s right is fascinating to me. I’m looking forward to delving into it deeper through Me (and) Me!


About Alice Kuipers

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Bestselling author Alice Kuipers was born in London. She moved to Canada in 2003. Her first novel, Life on the Refrigerator Door, won several awards. Since then, she has published three further award-winning YA novels internationally, with the fourth, The Death of Us, a CLA shortlisted title. Me (and) Me, her fifth YA novel, is described by Bif Naked as mesmerising. Her picture book Violet and Victor Write the Best Ever Bookworm Book was selected as an Amazon best pick and Violet and Victor Write the Most Fabulous Fairy Tale was a Winter Indie 2015 Selection. She has an upcoming chapter book series with Chronicle Press.

Alice’s work has been published in 34 countries and her first novel made into plays in London, Paris and Tokyo.

She has four children.

Find her writing tips and hints, and free access to her online writing course Freeflow: A Writing Journey here:

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13 responses to “Giveaway + Guest Post : Me (and) Me by Alice Kuipers | Blog Tour

  1. Julie Waldron

    A defining moment was when I had our oldest daughter in 1993. Having my daughter’s is one of the best things that have ever happened to me.

  2. Amanda

    My defining moment was deciding to work with and care for children. At 28, I have often struggled with the decision to have children of my own. Although I still have no children, I do have kids in my life who I love and care for and I’m just happy to have found my path, even if it’s not the same one that everyone else walks.

  3. Wendy

    I’m not sure if I have had a defining moment. I have placed myself in moments I thought would be “that moment” but not quite. I do struggle with the choices I did not make, fortunately, there’s always tomorrow.

  4. Sam

    I am cliche, the birth of my daughter. It really did change me. It’s that moment when there is someone more important to you than yourself, and she has been a joy for the past 22 years.
    Sam @ WLABB

  5. Making the choice to postpone my 2nd degree in order to fully conplete my 1st was life changing! (Ironically enough I was thinking about this today!) Can’t imagine my life without the people I’ve met because if that choice

  6. Oh my gosh, reading that synopsis had my heart pumping. What a horrible decision to have to make! Especially as a teenager. I’ve had many defining moments in my life, I don’t think I could name just one. I haven’t had quite such a huge moment as Lark though, that’s for sure.

  7. Tammy V

    It was after my divorce. I had a 5 year old and a 8 month old. It was hard but I loved that I was finally independent. Before I was with my parents and then my husband but then I was on my own and could take some control. (yes ex-husband was a control freak)

  8. Janice Cournoyer

    My defining moment in life would have to be after I retires from nursing, I taught in the Nursing program and realiized that I should have done that all along, So rewarding!!

  9. Aisha F.

    I don’t really have a defining moment in life yet, but I strongly feel that it will be the day I graduate high school (in one month) because it is such an important milestone in life! So I can’t wait!!

  10. Anita Jude

    My defining moment in my life is having my son..the BEST decision of my life and one of the most rewarding

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